CovenantInBlood,

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You misunderstand the Ordo Salutis. This article might be helpful: "The Order of Salvation."

It doesn't help. I'm still left with the impression that salvation is a step by step process and Calvinists are synergists.

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This effectual call is of God's free and special grace alone, not from any thing at all foreseen in man, who is altogether passive therein, until, being quickened and renewed by the Holy Spirit, he is thereby enabled to answer this call, and to embrace the grace offered and conveyed in it.

Westminster Confession, Effectual Call

Enabled to answer this call and embrace the grace offered? How does this differ from the Arminian's decision and RC infused grace?