I grew up in a non-Christian home and suffer from attention deficit(not officially diagnosed). I seem to have very strong Calvinist leanings, but having gotten such a late start, have much to learn. Arminians on other forums seem to despise Calvinism. The animosity between the two groups stresses me. Do Calvinists blame their sins on God? Does God control every single action of ours including what we have for breakfast?

My husband is tolerant of my beliefs but not interested in believing as I do. Our pastor is Arminian.

I joined this site because I'm hoping it's a safe place to learn about Calvinism. Thanks.

Lynda