You have 'dumped' far too much to give adequate answers to each and every statement/question you have made... sorry! However, I can direct you to the entire section on The Highway website that I'm confident addresses your statements and questions.

Go here: The Atonement.

1. Nowhere in Scripture is the teaching that God "loves everybody". To show this is patently an incorrect statement all one need to provide is a statement that God doesn't love but actually hates one individual. Fortunately, there are many such statements that clearly state that God hates an individual and even the majority of mankind, e.g.,. Ps 5:5; 11:5; Prov 6:16-19; Mal 1:1-3; Matt 7:21-23 ("I never knew you=I never loved you), et al. God is benevolent to all but His love=grace=salvation is decidedly restricted to only those whom from all eternity He ordained/chose/predestined to be redeemed by the LORD Christ.

2. see here: Does God Love the Sinner and Hate Only His Sin?

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