You were deemed “an unbeliever”?

Wow! Perhaps that is what you considered them to deem you? That is definitely going too far, on their part!

I personally do not know of any Reformed Baptist Churches that would consider you an unbeliever on those grounds.

Reformed Baptist Churches are very fond of many Paedo-Baptists. In fact, on occasion quote Paedo-Baptists like Calvin, Knox, Owen, and Sproul in their sermons.

That said the issues you bring up, are definitely important issues and is an in house debate within Reformed Baptist circles.

I particularly believe Paedo-Baptists who because of conscience issues should be allowed to
partake in the Lord’s Suppers, if they have shown themselves to be true believers. Which is something that should be required of everyone in the congregation.
Membership should be allowed as well, with the exception being they cannot hold an office like deacon or elder.

I mentioned earlier Founders Ministries. Tom Ascol is the president of Founders Ministries and on this issue, believes Paedo-Baptists should be allowed to partake in the Lord’s Supper. He also believes they should be allowed to become members; but can’t hold an office such as deacon or elder.

Another member of Founders Ministries, Tom Nettles apparently has a new book on this.

Tom