Pilgrim

That is helpful, but what do you say about this Reformed pastor's example about the 5 point Arminian, who he says displays the marks of a true Christian?
Just so you are aware, I have tremendous respect for this particular pastor. He has a very high view of the Scriptures and isn't afraid to admit that he is wrong, if and when it is proved by Scripture.
I guess what I am trying to do is understand how best to approach this matter biblically.

Tom