hdbdan
Thank you for the Wesley quotes; from what I have read about Wesley and what Whitefield said about him, I think he was/is among the elect.
Wesley’s form of Arminianism made room for the total depravity of man, by what is called "prevenient grace". This basically means that although man is not capable in himself to come to come to Christ, God opens a window so for a short period of time man is able to come to Christ by his own free-will.

Tom