Kalled, you can be on one side or the other without being an extremist. Take, oh say Pilgrim here. He is a 5 point Calvinist. He is firm in his beliefs. He is certainly not a moderate, but he is also not an extremist or a nut-job.

I may have just opened the door for a few potshots at Pilgrim, but I will at least not enter. <img src="/forum/images/graemlins/BigThumbUp.gif" alt="" />

"There is nothing that keeps wicked men at any one moment out of hell, but the mere pleasure of God." - Jonathan Edwards