hisalone,

You claim to be reformed but I question whether you have studied at all the reformed(and I believe the Biblical understanding of baptism) position on baptism. It is a sign and seal of the NEW covenant, whereas circumcision is the sign and seal of the OLD covenant. In order for you to come to a better understanding of covenant theology I would recommend a booklet by John P. Sartelle. The title is "What Christian Parents Should Know About Infant Baptism". It is published by P&R publishing. The cover contains a word from J.I.Packer which says "is far and away the best study of it's kind-simple,vivid,practical,pastoral-that I have read...I commend it as intrinsically excellent(and) pastorally timely."Baptism is ALL about the Covenants and not about the priesthood.
I do not believe that my brothers and sisters on this forum are being in anyway judgemental. They are simply trying impress upon you(in love) the need to rightly divide the Word of Truth. We have a great heritage--God has raised up gifted men(gifted by the Holy Spirit)to teach. Pray for a teachable spirit. Jon