tj,
A church or denomination that ordains women as pastors or teachers above men is one that is in open defiance of the word of God (1 Tim 2:12). You cannot measure "success" by disobedience. If such practices are held at your church I would suggest you address the head pastor, elders, or governing body and plead with them to stay within God's order. Obviously if church vows are in place you do not want to be careless or hasty in leaving, but if the church remains in defiance your actions are justified in moving on to a solid Bible-believing congregation.

"He is not here, for he has risen"--Matthew 28:6