So your church isn't helping in this matter? Have you asked other churches? I believe in what your doing is right, but not to the point of you hurting yourselves financially the way you are. If your church won't help, I would try a Lutheran or Episcopal church, they are pretty good about these types of ministries. This is truly a sad example of the church. You will be in my families prayers.

Y.B.I.C,

Dave.

Knowing that a man is not justified by the works of the law, but by the faith of Jesus Christ, even we have believed in Jesus Christ, that we might be justified by the faith of Christ, and not by the works of the law: for by the works of the law shall no flesh be justified. - Galatians 2:16