something to the effect that we shouldn't be discouraged if our loved one never comes to Christ because God couldn't convince him either. WHAT?

I asked myself "Why do Arminians pray?" Did God really harden Pharoah's heart? Can God deliver us from the power of Satan? I seldom debate Arminians knowing that God can make anyone see the truth of scripture. I don't consider myself overly intelligent and I definitely realize that I have little education, but sometimes the things that people say about God make no sense to me!
I have a long road to hoe, but I hope to spend the remainder of this year diligently studying articles and sermons that will aid me in the cause of Christ.