It is fair to say, "Jesus loves me."

It is not fair to say, "God loves you and has a wonderful plan for you life."

It might be true of some people who haven't been reborn yet, but what is God's wonderful plan for unrepentant sinners? They join the devil and his angels in the lake of fire for eternity! This plan is not so wonderful, at least from a human point of view. People-pleasing is telling sinners that God loves them unconditionally and wants everyone to go to heaven.

Did I answer the question? I'm not sure I understood it.