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...this Man, delivered over by the predetermined plan and foreknowledge of God, you nailed to a cross by the hands of godless men and put to death (Romans 2:23).

God did not force anyone to fulfill His predetermined plan. No one who partcipated in it did so against their will or against their nature. The Jews wanted to conduct that illegal trial and wanted the Lord crucified.

Murder is not God's moral will. He forbids it in His law! Yet He planned the murder of His only Son and saw it accomplished. Not because He forced anyone to do what they didn't want to so He could blame them. But because He created them to do that so He could save them. This is providence, not bullying.

We are limited in our choices by two things: Our ability and our desire. A male cannot become pregnant because he doesn't have the capacity for it. No matter how much he may desire to. He is limited to choose only within his ability.

Do not suggest that regeneration forces a new nature upon an unwilling person and compels him to become a Christian! The Scripture does not describe regeneration that way. Rather it is an act of liberation, freeing the will that was bound to sin and bestowing new ability that makes new choices possible. A regenerated heart that is free and able to choose obedience is certain to do so because that is its nature. And because it has the ability and desire to do so. Not because it was forced. But because it has been liberated.