1 Sam 15:29 He who is the Glory of Israel does not lie or change his mind; for he is not a man, that he should change his mind." NIV

Ps 110:4 The LORD has sworn and will not change his mind: "You are a priest forever, in the order of Melchizedek." NIV

Mal 3:6 "I the LORD do not change. So you, O descendants of Jacob, are not destroyed. NIV

Heb 7:21 but he became a priest with an oath when God said to him: "The Lord has sworn and will not change his mind: 'You are a priest forever.'" NIV

Heb 13:8 Jesus Christ is the same yesterday and today and forever. NIV

James 1:16-18 Don't be deceived, my dear brothers. Every good and perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of the heavenly lights, who does not change like shifting shadows. NIV

Your argument has the following weaknesses:

1. You are saying God fundamentally changed when Jesus was born. That is, he was not complete and needed to evolve to reach a final state. This is contrary to Mal 3:6 and James 1:16-18.
2. You are saying God changed his mind to include a human element. This is contrary to Mal 3:6, James 1:16-18, 1 Sam 15:29, Ps 110:4 and Heb 7:21.
3. You are saying Jesus Christ is not eternal. This is contrary to Heb 13:8
4. You have ignored (failed to address) my reference to Heb 1:1-2 which connects Jesus = “him that spoke to us” as the one “through whom also he created the worlds”
5. You have ignored (failed to address) my reference to Heb 3:3-4 which connects “Jesus” to “the builder of all things”
6. You have ignored (failed to address) my reference to Col 1:15-17 which connects “our Lord Jesus Christ” in verse 3 to “all things that were created”
7. You have ignored (failed to address) my reference to the creed which says “He is the one and the same Christ, Son, Lord, Only-begotten, recognized in two natures, without confusion, without change, without division”.



BTW, love does not take into account a wrong suffered,