I did see it Marie, and I will say again.. no one has ever said that God HAS to save anyone

I believe it is completely consistant with God's character to save infants who die. Not just some.

Once again, if God somehow, in some way, saves an infant that you call "elect" then I put it to you that I believe that He does that for every single infant... not adult.

God is just, God is soveriegn and good. everything he does is right. But He is alsomerciful.. His mercies are new every morning and He is also love. His grace is free.

(And about your post, I did think it an awful thing to say, and even think. I don't think it's a good argument. But I also didn't want Janean to think I was making such a strong statement to her while she is still so new.. or that I thought she made the original remark.)

Michele