Although I remain a Credo Baptist, from the past few years of studying the issue, I know that this issue is not black and white.
This is one of the reasons why I refuse to make it a huge deal.
Some Baptists I know believe that by allowing a paedo into the membership of a Baptist Church, that Church ceases to be Baptist. As one learned Baptist responded: "Please use Scripture to prove that statement. The onus is on you to prove it."
The person never did respond with Scripture.

Tom