Everything I read here is helpful.. So I do appreciate it all. I still have so many questions though.. However, my only feeling is that much of what I am told here seems so round-a-bout.. I read questions from myself and other posters on this forum and all of the answers to them say xyz but for xyz you have to agree with your(reformed) views.. I really do wish I could remember in where in Hebrews I read it.. But I had many questions with some of the content in Hebrews..

There are many unregenerate people who do good things, but this won't help them if they reject God's provision for salvation. Do they believe in Christ or do they reject Him?

With your quote from above.. you still sound as if those people have the choice to accept or decline His grace.. Just an FYI...