Okay.. I can and do understand that God would ordain my prayers to fulfill a purpose He set them out to fulfill.. (the accident victim being saved because of it).. But what about the times I forget to?? I am not going to lie and say that EVERY time I pass an accident anymore that I pray.. I know I at least think to myself that I should, but I end up thinking about why should I pray, (especially recently with the thought of predestination and what not), what should I pray for, and so on and on; and so I know that I should and still dont.. if God ordained me to pray, or not to pray, why not make it more clear to me?? I seem so confused all the time because I have a habit of trying to figure out why certain things are/happen the way that they do.. If all that I experience is ordained, why am I always confused?

On a brighter note.. I am happy to hear that my most recent post before this one has helped clear up some of the confusion.. I hope no one has any hard feelings for as I said before.. I never meant to "pick a fight"..